Life may not be forever, Mr, but love is, and the memories of our 32 years together ...

                                               13 July 1944 - 31 May 2017

You have now gone on your last journey, darling, and I have to stay here without you. But I will be forever grateful that our paths crossed, we fell in love and walked together, hand-in-hand, for a short while. If only it could have been for longer.  Be at peace, my love, and hamba gashle . . .

You'll never walk alone Barrie / Dad / Bazza.  We love you.

                                       "When I go, my Lovely,
                                       Please try not to cry,
                                       You know I'll be leaving my heart with you -
                                       Could WE ever say goodbye?

                                      The love that's deep within me,
                                      Will reach you from the stars,
                                      You'll feel it from the heavens,
                                      And it will heal your scars".

                                                        *  *  *     

Look for me when the tide is high and the gulls are wheeling overhead.

When the autumn wind sweeps the cloudy sky, and one by one the leaves are shed.

Look for me when the trees are bare and the stars are bright in the frosty sky;

When the morning mist hangs on the air, and shorter darker days pass by.  

I am there, where the river flows and salmon leap to a silver moon;

Where the insects hum and the tall grass grows, and sunlight warms the afternoon.

I am there in the busy street  -  I’ll take your hand in the city square;

In the market place where people meet, or in your quiet room - I am there.

I am the love you cannot see, and all I ask is  -  look for me.

                                                      *  *  *

                                                ONE AT REST

            Think of me as one at rest, for me you should not weep.

            I have no pain, no troubled thoughts,for I am just asleep.

            The living, thinking me that was is now forever still.

             But life goes on without me, as time forever will.

 

             If your heart is heavy now because I've gone away,

             Dwell not long upon it, for none of us can stay.

             To those of you who liked me, I would like thank you all,             

             But to those of you who loved me, I thank YOU the most of all.

                                                          *  *  *

"Those we love don't go away - they are with us every day, unseen and unheard, but always there."

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Night night my love, lekker slaap. xx
Lit by Sue on 10th September 2020
When I lit this candle for the first time, my darling, you had been gone from us a week, but it's every day that I think of you - with love, tears and so many happy memories - so I shall relight it every day, as I do with a "real" one ... to hold you in light and love. My days are empty without you, but I will try to remember "with a smile" because I know that's what you would want. Thank you for everything we shared together for 32 memorable years, Sweetheart, and in particular thank you so very much for loving me and letting me be a part of your life. It was an honour. You were everything to me, and now you're gone… I will love you, Mr, for ever. xx
Lit by Sue on 7th June 2017
11th April, darling. Our "other" special day - our VERY special day ... I'll be remembering our 28 years of marriage together - the laughter, the wonderful, daft, silly things we did, "the Clampets", Betsy being lifted on and off Kariba Ferries ... and so much more. I could go on, but I'd be here all day! The first time you told me you loved me - at Harare Airport the evening I was leaving Zim - was our "first" 11th April; our second one was when we got engaged 2 years later - sitting on the stoep at Tankatara Drive after the Baker wedding - and then, of course our own wonderful, happy, joyous "big" day itself 2 years after that {with the judge forgetting his 'duties' and going shopping instead and the scrabble around to find another willing one ... !!}. But there will also be tears today, lots of them. We cried together at times too, didn't we, but I hope - in time - that the smiles will outweigh the tears. I miss you, my special, wonderful man, and I'll never stop loving you, today or any other day, as long as I live. xx
Lit by Sue on 11th April 2018
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